Why Now…

Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken. — Oscar Wilde. This is the first post on my new blog. I’m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates.

Facebook Cousins

Over the weekend I met a few of my cousins for lunch. Two of us drove and met two other cousins halfway between our hometown. Our goal was to catch up, laugh and talk and gain updates regarding what’s going on in each other’s lives. I’m totally grateful that I have a group of women…

Transparent Thursday- Rocky Faith

Okay… have you ever known God is able and capable but somewhat fearful if the, “What if he doesn’t?” If you’re fearful of the what if he doesn’t is that doubt? But you’re not doubting that He can you just don’t know if He will for you…. Understanding the sovereignty of God, He can if…

Goodbye October

As we say goodbye to October, I’d like to discuss something that we don’t talk nearly enough about… grief. In October when so many celebrate life and survival, there are many that hurt from the pain of losing loved ones. I know individuals that hate breast cancer awareness month because it reminds them of the…

Derailed…

Uncomfortably comfortable derailed Last week I got on the rail to go to work. After two stops the Metro attendant that was riding the rail with us said, “There is a fire downtown, this rail will stop. You will have to get off and ride shuttles downtown.” Some people begin to moan, cuss and became…

Frame of Reference

Frame of Reference How you relate to a person, a situation, crisis, hurt and even celebration is all affixed to your frame of reference. When I say frame of reference, I’m referring to ones central compass of beliefs and thoughts. I gained my frame of reference from Christian, Black, southern parents that some considered “middle…

Pictured…

My Daddy sent me this picture about a year ago. He said one of his fellow trooper snapped it. When I see this I see a number of things… 1. Authority vs. Peace… just because you can doesn’t mean you should. I see a uniform and a gun… but he’s at peace. 2. You can…

Why now.. II

Why now… part II Believe me or not… a persons testimony can be powerful. How many times do we go to the doctor or enter a relationship and think, “I wish I would have known that.” The I wish I knew that comes to me when I find out a relative had a medical issue…